What is the quality of conversations your are having with your partners?
In most cases, or shall i say the ideal idea is to be with your best friend. someone who understand you, cares enough to listen/teach you. and to hear your problems out or vice versa ! and of course we have to be opinionated about it (sharing ideas). hopefully this helps us grow in the same direction we plan to grow. growth can be from lessons that other people have experince and shares with you. What better way to learn then from a person who has experience it 1st hand?
But i think, alot of people doen't talk and only want to listen or vice versa. is this a problem with people now adays?
Well, if i was going to talk to myself and listen to myself speak, i believe i have the four walls for that.
ie - a tele-conversation i perceive to have no value - extracted and modified
Guy : hey !
Gal : Heys !!!
Guy: *keeps quiet
Gal: so what have u up too the whole day?
Guy: nothing much (when he could have said, i went shopping/met up with frinds/ had a converstion about ....... or something)
Gal: u sleep now? (she askes this cause he sounds like he is lying down)
Guy: ya, tired man !
Gal: rites! y would u call me when u are going to sleep ?
Guy: dont want u to bitch at me the next day
Gal: i woudlnt (*thinking* its not like this conversation is going anywhere, whether or not u talk to me, is not going to make a HUGE difference)
Guy: *Yawns* (in the middle of a conversation
Gal: ok, bye !
Guy: Bye !
Dont call for the sake of calling.
Please tell me this is not a conversation married couples have?
This is y, i believe single people, should just stay single and let other people with stamina handle people like that.
Saturday, May 12, 2007
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it need a real lateral thinking to argue with this girl.. cause u know what she's right... to some extent
Oh come on ?
Im sure, u can come up with some excuse for your so called male "superior" species !
uh oh , stephie is on her feminist streak again.
really sorry that I'm the way I am. It's part of being too calm that makes me numb and have a lack of emphaty.
And I have you to thank for to keep reminding me. You're the best ..
Jason,
yes yes, me and my femist streak. Guess u are stuck with it huh ?
for the way u are? i guess i would haev to deal with it la, since i cant get rid of u......
im the best for being the pain in your butt. Geez thanks !
This is pretty common in most relationship. With married couple, well, you either get used to it & dont get too bothered or live in misery. I choose the former becos after a while, I realise he's really listening although I feel like I'm talking to myself. :P
Hi Creart,
I guess u are right. But, if this is common and its almost certain this happends, y should anyone get married? if this cont. i believe its an unhealty life to have.
Life is too short for these kinda things.
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